I said it before and I'll say it again. I don't condone cheating... but I admit I haven't helped someone not cheat. Yeah, I've been the "other" woman and if youre judging, well, guess what? Go lick your finger and put it up your pooter.
Anywho, so I have been out but I've kept up (somewhat) with whats going on with the world. And it never ceases to amaze me that friggin people...AND the MEDIA... are so damn judgmental. Like really. Who cares if Tiger Woods is a sex addict? And that Jesse James cheated on the beautiful Sandra Bullock? Like cmon lets be real. Everyday people do it. Why cant they? Why are they so special? Them getting chastised for being normal is ridiculous. Do we seriously forget when putting celebrities on their pedestals that they are just human? That they are like you and me, nothing more than skin and bones?
So throughout the semester, I've been seeing this in the media. And hearing it amongst friends. What I dont understand is why a person cant just either speak up about their relationship issues to the person they are with or just leave them. They want to stay and have their side, eat it too. Well, guess what? You cant. All truth comes to light at some point and eventually you WILL get caught. Sometimes it may not even be while you are still in a relationship, it is while you are outside of it or long gone and done.
So I'm telling you, my readers, that people are ridiculous. If youre going to cheat. Well, do it right, and dont get caught slippin. If you dont, kudos to you and I'm glad you did the right thing.
Another thing... Why is it that its always guys getting chastised for this bull? Like cmon, we all know that women are bigger cheaters and better liars. But no, were quick to judge. Well... only because they got caught right? Well, umm, no. That shouldnt be the reason as to why you're judging. Mind your business and let them be.
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When I was on vacation, every hotel lobby and every airport I was in had the TV set to the Tiger Woods scandal, and all I could think was "How is this any of my business?!!"
I got cheated on by someone many years ago. I don't think people realize when they do that what a cruel mind game they're playing. Having been on the receiving end, I know it's something I could never do to someone else. But I'm not judging. That guy did me a HUGE favour!
I've been cheated on before, and it was very painful. I don't think I could do that to someone; plus, Karma is a bitch. But I am not going to judge.
As far as these celebrity men, why get married? Why form a union? Stay single and mingle as much as you want, I always say!
My best friend was dating a married man. I didn't approve of it, but I didn't judge her. I told her it was wrong, as a wife, but I still remained friends with her. In the end, the dude picked his wife, and all I could do was be there for my friend who was really sad. Karma.
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